All women go through some dating doubts, but if you are experiencing any of the following issues, you could be wasting your time with the wrong person. If you’d like to make sure you’re with Mr.Right, look out for these 10 signs you’re dating Mr. Wrong.
1- You Can’t Be Yourself With Him:
Your friends and your family tell you you’ve changed. You are always watching what you say or how you act, just to impress your partner. Your partner should love you as you are. Does it feel like they are trying to change you into a totally different person? If so, it might be time to RUN AWAY! No relationship is worth having to wear a mask.
2- You are NOT Happy
Though it’s true that your partner isn’t responsible for your happiness, He should definitely make your days a little brighter! Someone who is dating the right person consistently enjoys the relationship and feels a general sense of happiness (arguments aside!). If you feel like you miss happiness most of the time – and especially when you are with them – then this may be a sign that this isn’t the best fit for you.
3- You Don’t Feel Good about Yourself
If he makes you feel like you’re not good enough in any way, maybe it’s time to say SEE YA! We all have our insecurities and Of Course you don’t need someone to make you feel even more insecure. Being in a relationship means that you are with someone who empowers you, not someone who makes you feel worse.
4- Hanging out with them Exhausts you
If spending time with your partner emotionally drains you, you might be dating the wrong person. You should feel happy and alive with your partner, not sad and stuck. In other words , the person you decide to spend your life with should really lift you up rather than drag you down.
5- You’re Not Excited to See or Hear From Them
He calls you…and you send it to voicemail. Or sometimes you actually avoid him. You realize that you feel completely hesitant when you are around him. Dating should be fun, exciting and heartwarming, not another routine task. It’s not always going to be sunshine and roses, but you should feel happy to see him most of the time.
6- They don’t really listen to you
If your partner always wants to speak, you might be dating the wrong person.They always talk about their day at work, but never seem interested in yours. They always suggest where they’d like to go, but never care about your opinion. If your partner does a whole lot of speaking (but never listens), you might want to find someone not so self-centered to share your life with.
7- You have Different Interests
He loves to go out every night and sleep late. You like to just be home and get an early start. He wants to be together 24/7, while you love to have time with your girlfriends. Compatibility is a fundamental component of a happy and peaceful couple, and if you and your partner have many essential differences, it may make things that much harder.
8-You can’t seem to introduce him to your friends and family
If you are dating someone and don’t really want to introduce them to your friends or family, this is not a good sign indeed (and you should ask yourself why!). Also if your partner never brings you around his friends, it’s another sign. If your most trusted friends are expressing concern about your relationship, think one more time. These people may be able to see things more objectively than you, so it’s important to consider what they say.
9. You Can’t Have Difficult Conversations With Him
By definition, difficult conversations are not easy, nor enjoyable to experience. But these are things that need to be talked about and addressed. If he doesn’t want to have such conversations with you, then he may not be emotionally ready to be in a long term relationship.
10- You Never Imagine the Future Together
After a certain amount of time together, it is normal to start thinking about what the future might be like as a couple. If you can’t even imagine this, then it’s not going to happen. If you can’t see him in your future, then drop him.
Finally, Try to find someone who treats you how you need to be treated and makes you happy. Someone who makes you feel good about yourself, and whom the people you trust encourage you to be with. Dust yourself off and go and get the right man. You deserve someone who is your best friend.
By Ahmed Zaki