Not sure what those glances and smiles mean? You really like her but don’t know if she feels the same way! Thinking about going and telling her, but worrying about the consequences! Don’t worry friend; a woman in love behaves in a certain way. You might be unable to spot the love signs now. But once you read this, you’ll learn how to decipher the code of love sent from a demoiselle to her secret crush! (smile emoji 🙂
How to Detect If a Girl Is In Love with You?
When a girl falls in love with a guy, she usually won’t take the initiative in pouring her heart out and saying “I love you”. Instead she will send subtle messages for him to detect, and you should be smart enough to receive those messages correctly.
Pay attention; the more you use your attentive listening skills, the better you’ll get those hidden messages. Being a good listener means that you allow her to fully express her feelings before you respond or change the topic. Listen carefully and be attentive to the things she tells you so that you have them for future reference. Let’s get started!
* Girls are different. She might be shy or outgoing, but does she act the same way around other guys? Look at her body language. Leaning in, uncrossed legs, nervous voice, and dilated pupils (especially) are all signs she likes you!
* Another sign is if she laughs at your boring, stupid jokes. (Beware: Don’t use bad jokes as a test, or you’ll risk looking like a comedy dork)!
*She may not be able to look you straight in the eye. She might smile and laugh a lot because she is worried and she thinks that you are monitoring all her moves.
*Check for the smile. A girl that’s interested in you will usually immediately smile when you start a conversation with her. The smile may disappear quickly, if she’s shy. But it’s hard to hide an unexpected strong emotion. If she’s not romantically interested, she’ll likely look at you but she won’t express any particular interest.
Observe the Way in Which She Looks At You!
If she likes you, she will tend to either hold her gaze on for a long time or pull away immediately the moment your eyes make contact with hers. Either of these responses could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it often means she is nervous or not ready to reveal her true intentions yet, but she still likes you. And if she holds the stare, and you believe you see responsiveness or even love in her eyes; then she is confident and she may make the first move.
Of course, some girls might just be staring or winding you up, so don’t fall for them. They may quickly dart their heads in a different direction.
You will Bump into Her More Often!
You see her in the way to your class/work. If you two work or learn at the same place you will encounter her by the canteen or catch her in the coffee break looking at you. You may also meet her at the mall on many weekends by accident. So, if she bumped into you more often than you would consider the usual, this girl is definitely in love with you!
Look at Her Friends!
If you see most of her friends glancing back at you smiling or giggling, this probably means that she has told her friends about you and they’re “in the know”. This can happen at any age, although mature girls and women friends tend to behave in a slightly more subtle way, using glances and knowing smiles or nods instead of giggles. In some cases, a friend may actually be bold enough to come and tell you that her friend likes you.
Notice also, when you come over while she was having a conversation with her friends, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means that you were the subject of the just-ended conversation!
Notice the Little Things She Does For You!
She’s your biggest supporter; she’s always there for you when you need help. Things as small as quickly offering you a sip of her drink when you mention that you’re thirsty may serve as a clue. But don’t assume that she’s into you, only from one experience. Ask her occasionally for small things, and notice how she reacts. If she’s always ready to offer you something you might need, she probably likes you.
Take care; if you use this approach too much or choose tasks that seem too difficult, she may think you’re lazy, testing her or even a bit of a nuisance. Don’t overdo it; you don’t want to risk her ceasing to like you.
For a girl to fall in love with you she first has to find you attractive. That doesn’t necessarily mean you have to be physically attractive, because attraction for women involves a lot more than just looks. There are much more important qualities women are looking for, and if you want to make a woman fall in love with you, you have to show that you have those qualities. Traits like confidence, humor, and social intelligence are all very important in showing a woman the guy is capable of taking care of her. Confidence shows a secure guy who knows what he’s doing and can handle adversity. Humor shows a guy who is comfortable and relaxed. Social intelligence shows a guy is capable of making friends and enlisting the help of others. All these things show a guy who has the resources to take care of his loved ones.
Now it’s your turn. If you sense how much she’s into you, what are you waiting for? Come on man! Take the right step, don’t miss this chance. Smile at her, get closer, talk with her more often and who knows; maybe one day you will find out that you’ve done the most important choice of your life, and you end up walking down the aisle with this same one! Best wishes dear friend 🙂